Healing psychospiritually and neuroemotionally happens in reverse order of how the ego was formed to begin with. Fear starts and begins the formation of ego development from a trauma perspective. Fear that is negative that causes a perceived threat to one’s beingness if it persists and goes unregulated can and will lead to fawning or reluctant acceptance if it is not regulated and processed accordingly as it happens. Since this is the beginning of the formation of the ego it will be the last component of the ego after it is formed to heal. The fear that is reluctantly accepted through dysregulation is based upon an illusion that feels very real. Because it feels very real it competes with one’s beingness to establish itself as the only reality there is and therefore true even though it is not the whole truth. It is a half truth and the other half that is absent is the reality of GOD’S love for the individual that goes through this experience.  In order for this process of dysfunction to start and establish itself a negative sustained stimulus needs to be present to fully initiate develope and form and complete the ego associated with the initial trauma to become a competing phenomena challenging one’s idea and concept of themselves which will if sustained long enough lead to questioning if they were conceived in love and the very purpose of their existence.  Spiritually this is where God’s love for us enters the picture to mitigate and advocate for us so those who are going or who have gone through this can become stable and heal through His emissaries of His light and love whether it is His Angel’s, The Holy Spirit or Jesus Christ Himself or others who have gone on before us. This is needed to balance the person and protect GOD’S promise to them and that is the promise of His freewill to them. Even though after the ego becomes the predominant consciousness of the individual the idea or concept of freewill through transcendence and transformation become authentic freewill healing and or awakening in their soul and or heart. People who are wounded will Naturally seek out healing and make it a priority to pursue and follow where with a narcissist it won’t even register on their radar of their psyche unless it is their time to heal and become aware of their ego. Triggers are healed mostly on a heart level although there maybe some on a soul level. They are based upon fear or fears that the ego tries to manipulate others to get to take them on through the ego’s persistence and eventually one’s denial of their own divinity. The fear or fears are experienced first during ego formation and are healed last with healing and recovery of the heart. The most efficient way to heal them is when they Naturally will come up to be faced head on and be regulated and give expression to them discharging their energy and with this expulsion from the person’s psyche. Any form of expression that is connected to one’s feelings will be connected to the associated fear or fears to be expressed when it or they come up for Healing. Compensations of the ego will be realized at some point after the fears associated with it have been healed processed and integrated some time after the triggers are healed. Compensations are the counter measures a person’s psyche under goes to accomodate the low vibrational dysfunction of the ego imposing itself upon them within them. This reveals to the person going through this process two things. It will reveal their weaknesses and their strengths at the same time. It reveals weaknesses because the ego may be comprehended based upon past life experience but may not fully understand the reason or purpose for the experience of the ego but may understand it is something that needs help to understand itself. It reveals their strengths by revealing to them that even though its compensations are somwhat primitive unrefined coping skills the fact that they can compensate reveals to them that they have what it takes to not only compensate but also heal to eventually be free of the ego but also that everything about the ego that is untrue or false within their true heart and soul and that the actual attribute and strength of God exists even though it may not feel that way depending upon the severity of the trauma and the severity of the negative stimulus involved. Once these compensations are realized these real attributes and strengths of God now come forward helping the person become who they really are and are created to be. The inner search of one who is in need of healing becomes the outward expression of who they really are and are created to be healed whole and complete.